Friday, 4 September 2015

MY SISTER’S PEN THAT NEVER DRIED AFTER BREAKAGE




                                              A young girl with a pen in class 


An ordinary day it was, nothing unusual, a normal sunny day with the scorching heat and sweltering sun of Mandera town. As a usual routine, adan {not his real name} was to visit the local bank branch to deposit money as a school fees for the new term, what started as a usual day seemed somewhat unusual for the bank entrance, long queue of old men and women heeding for handouts for the old folks fill the better space of the bank hall.

Feeling emaciated y the  walk along the dusty road under the sweltering sun and angered by the long queue of the old folks, adan somehow opted to take a breath and relax on the bank longue  that provide a complete comfort in relation to outside as the queue length eases up.

                                                  Dusty road of scorching sun

Comfort comes good thought, as the air conditioner provides a temporary euphoria of comfort, real thought of what life could mean when one has everything crisscrossed his mind.
Alas !!!!  abele , young and beautiful Somali girl in complete hijab{ Islamic dress} was his immediate neighbor at the longue .in a normal good day as a secondary student its very rare not to notice a girl. How could I not notice her? He said to himself? she too was deep in her world thoughts probably  mixer of contempt and amusement.
Though she looked so beautiful and pleasant, a second look could show a face in complete distress.
Adan, a talkative lad never misses a pick up line to start conservation with
 Adan: hey beautiful?
   Saadia{ not her real name} : a blank responses and somewhat rude tale greeted  adan
Good men never give up. Probably a second try could be somewhat positive.
The second trial greeting somehow melted her heart and gave a dried response of OK.
A mature secondary student of much sight and thoughtfulness can’t miss the chance to make an overall view of the neighour , he casted his  bold, black , protruding eyes on her brown-chocolate hand carrying a big sized novel.

   A girl displaying marked exam


Adan was perplexed , amused and beyond belief, his accumulated cranium rendered him a thought of the young girl being a secondary school student or beyond. He designed a self-perceived thought of a girl hyped with the literature readings in the automated high school syllabus.
Self-perception might lead to wrong-thinking and much far from the facts.
He smilingly asked her the name of the novel  she was holding .
His ears grew wider and bold enough to grasp the awaited response.
The young saadia who was updated with the content and the name of the novel answered him
“bro , the novel is called think big crafted by Afro-American  medical surgeon Ben Carson”
The shocked adan asked her class and the school she studies as it was the behavior and culture of his aged students.
The response given turn out to be a mirage, a deep turn of tables and a dream in day light .
Adan was in total shock, beyond wonder, profusely sweeting like an athlete who ran miles to win a race;  his eyes grew bold enough outside the socket
Her response:  bro , am class seven in the neighboring  primary school, a response miles away from her age and class
Adan develop a deep interest to the young girl that was much informed than her level and even to a level much ahead of  secondary school students and very rare to  see a girl of that height.
He asked her thoughtfully how she come to know about the novel that was much beyond her level ?
She wholeheartedly released the truth and matter form the covered casket. She narrated the scares and internal wounds they have been suffering from for long period of time and less exposed among the pastrol societies.
She narrated : these novel belongs to my elder sister who was a bright , focused and brilliant girl. She use to work hard throughout in her studies to achieve her future dreams BUT her education was cut short mercilessly  and heartlessly by our own blood father , less concern about girls education and much dreaded into the retrogressive cultural belief of girls to occupy in the kitchen and at home
She continued , our father is atypical conservative Somali man who extensively participates in evening gatherings of old men over a cup of tea daily, also he profoundly chew mirra {khat} throughout and that needs a capital to satisfy his relevance of chewing among his mates and also stabilizes his ego, these lead him to forcefully and reluctantly  give her out to  an old man about the age of our father .




Her cry and requests falls on deaf ears and her education falls apart and she started a doomed life of desperation, regrets and sorrow. at these point the young girl’s eyes  filled with tear , she couldn’t  bear the  memories of her sister sold to an old man unwillingly and inflicted  an internal wound by her own father , memories of  a girl whose dreams were shattered and vanished into the space of desperation , she bow down in distress and cried













Girl crying after abuse. Distress and in sorrow mood

Adan took time to console the little girl and show a little strength to withstand the pain.
The young wiped the tears from her redden eyes.  
After few minutes of silence and recuperation, she continued the story :
  “ Despite she stop schooling , still her dreams of learning exist and she reads throughout  at home and hopes to do examinations as an adult candidate.
She further continued , in home we are 3:  i  , our married sister and a brother who has been showered with all care and opportunities of learning by our father because he is a boy and a man to be  but unfortunately he dropped out of school and join the world of drugs and mirra, he become wasted with no future life. Our mother sell vegetables in the open-air  market under the extreme scorching sun of Mandera, she sustain the family with the little profit she earns from her small-scale business.  i looking forward to strive in my schooling to provide  a pleasing life of joy and rest to my mother in future.

                  Hardworking small scale business mother at an open air market
Adan: At these point an old-aged mother  come to us, the young girl smilingly told me that these is my grandmother , as of the culture I stood up to great her. I wished the young girl well  as she escorted  her grand mum back home home.

At this era of knowledge and education, still the retrogressive culture hunts the little girls down, denial and undermining of the girl child education exists among us. Let us hold hands together and  stand for the small sister.
Give the small girl a pen and a book and tomorrow she will be there for us all, an old adage goes “ educating a girl is educating a nation.


    

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